Pride With No Parade
Pride With No Parade
In its 50th year, the LA Pride Parade has been postponed indefinitely. How can this be? With all of the oppression that the LGBTQ+ community has faced, it’s hard to comprehend that something is preventing us from participating in a cultural tradition that is based on defiant freedom. How do we stay in to celebrate Pride, when what we’re celebrating is synonymous with Coming Out?
Whether we are LGBTQ+ or not, we are in an incredibly challenging chapter in our lives. One with loss, uncertainty, confusion, and fear. Many of our usual methods of coping are currently unavailable to us. Communities of support aren’t accessible to us in person. Our means of financial support may be in jeopardy or even gone. We’re living in fear of losing our loved ones. Many lives have tragically been lost.
Of course, this is not the first time that the LGBTQ+ community has faced a devastating challenge such as this. For many, this current experience is bringing back tragic memories of the horrific AIDS epidemic. There was fear, unimaginable suffering and heartbreaking loss. The disease seemed to be targeting the LGBTQ+ community specifically and that only fanned the flames of anti-gay and anti-transgender sentiment in society, expressed through policies from administrations and violence in the streets. Along with grieving this past, though, we can also learn from it – and have an awareness of positive aspects that emerged from it, to give us the hope that we need now.
In a recent press conference regarding the impact of COVID-19, Dr. Anthony Fauci also drew a parallel to the AIDS epidemic and the resilience of what is now known as the LGBTQ+ community. He recalled that, “During that time, there was extraordinary stigma, particularly against the gay community. And it was only when the world realized how the gay community responded to this outbreak with incredible courage and dignity and strength and activism — I think that really changed some of the stigma against the gay community, very much so.” As head of the National Institute of Allergy & Infectious Diseases, Dr. Fauci was responsible for developing medications to treat HIV/AIDS at the height of the epidemic.
Thankfully, the devastating hardships connected to the AIDS epidemic also inspired qualities of strength in the LGBTQ+ community that became embedded in our conception and expression of pride. Compassion. Love. Unity. Resilience. These are only some of the principles that are now weaved into the very meaning of LGBTQ+ pride, similar to the colors that comprise the rainbows of our flags – and the spectrums of kaleidoscopes!
So, are we able to have pride without a parade? Absolutely! The principles of pride are internal ones that we carry with us, always.
Let’s draw upon those principles now. We may not be able to meet in the street to march and celebrate, but we are able to connect virtually until we may once more do so in person. At Kaleidoscope, we support the revision of the term “Social Distancing” to “Physical Distancing,” because we are able to connect socially while remaining safely physically distanced.
We invite you to join us in this social connection and pride celebration! Meet us in one (or more) of Kaleidoscope’s free online LGBTQ+ social support groups! There are many such groups to choose from. Simply choose one or more that interest you and represent your age group. Then, click on the link to register. We look forward to seeing you soon!
Pride Club for Ages 11 – 13
Connect virtually with other LGBTQIA+ youth ages 11 – 13 and their allies through creative activities, games, discussions, & hanging out.
Young Adult Coffee Chat & Support
Young adults (ages 18-24) of the LGBTQIA+ community are invited to join Kaleidoscope online for an afternoon of meeting peers, getting resources, and feeling connected.